Tuesday, November 29

“Thankful” Banner

I know Thanksgiving/November is over,  but I realized I didn’t share this on my blog.  I made it 3 or 4 years ago and it used to be on here but apparently isn’t any more.
I love my "thankful" banner. It always seems like the month of November goes so fast & then I have to take it down. It looks warm & festive and matches my decor so well!
To make it, I used a scrapbook pad so all the papers matched (from Target). Then I printed the letters in various fonts on coordinating papers. Cut them out & layered them. Punched the holes and tied them with ribbons. Then I tied more ribbons on. I love the swiss dot & shimmery gold!
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The banner hangs in our entry way, above the mirror. It’s the perfect spot for it. The rest of the area doesn’t look so great right now, with the day care stuff out and I moved a plant from the table recently so the tray is bare looking for the time being. You get the idea!
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Monday, November 28

Question From a Reader :: Becoming a Family Child Care Provider (working from home)

I am enjoying reading your site. You have such good ideas with the kids and I like your set up. I am currently teaching pre-k in a public school but have considered for some time to open my own in-home childcare business. I am concerned with the lack of benefits and secured pay, but dream of being my own boss and having the flexibility with being home. I'm a home body. How satisfied are you with this career choice?
I thought I’d answer this publicly, JR, hope you don’t mind.  First of all, thank you! I’ve been working hard at this day care/preschool role for almost 8 years.
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I started after desiring to be home with Brett and to have another baby. He was about 18 months. It wasn’t easy starting at this age (I found out he was a biter!), introducing other kids and stresses into our lives, but I’m still glad I did it.
It was a big decision for me to start my own business obviously but having a really good job complicated the decision. I had good hours, worked 4 days/wk and had great benefits. BUT I wasn’t able to be what I wanted at work or at home since I wasn’t at either place enough. After seeing the care Brett received in a family child care setting, I felt it was something I could do and hopefully enjoy. 
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I had some early childhood education, enough to get licensed. Luckily I took a course in high school that earned me an assistant teacher certificate. Then I took a 40 hr. infant/toddler course and SIDS training in order to be compliant.  Since I’ve build on that with lots of continuing ed and 18 more ECE credits.
Benefits: I have insurance through my husband’s job. Although they are not quite as good as we used to have, it’s been enough.
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Secure pay: It’s a rough transition between a regular pay check and being self employed. I just went for it. I didn’t have a lot of cushion but figured I’d get a PT job in the evening if I had to. We made it through and in less than 2 years my day care was full. (My first two kids were very PT. They were here two mornings/wk. I think their mom was having an affair while her kids were here…yikes!)  Income continues to fluctuate especially with issues in our local economy, but overall, I make more more than I did before. Tax benefits and especially immeasurable benefits have made this a good decision for our family.
I do take two weeks vacation and major holidays off paid which is common for family child care. You’ll need it and deserve it!
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Early Childhood Education and/or day care wasn’t my first choice. (I worked in interior design for 6-7 years. Lots of sales/nights/weekends. It became a situation of there was little place to go for me in this area unless I start my own business, which I may do someday…) But, this is where my experiences brought me and I’m happy with it. For now. I don’t intend to be a “lifer” at this job but I have no specific plans about how long I plan to be in family child care.
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It’s a huge commitment to take other people’s children into your home, meet licensing requirements, preschool standards and still have time for my life and family. We have one child so there’s not as much running around to activities as some families might have. I can see how this job would be difficult if you want to attend a lot of after school activities.
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Also, if at all possible, have your child care/preschool in a separate area of your home. I do not and while I’ve learned to deal with it, it makes this job a lot more work and stressful to have it in the main floor of our home.
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Personally, I LOVE being home. Sometimes on a Saturday or other day off, I find myself saying “I’m going to stay home ALL DAY.” Oh, I already do that all the time! Other times I can’t wait to get away.
If you are self motivated, creative, enjoy kids, are business minded, and love a challenge, this job is for you! Notice ‘PATIENT’ is not included in that list. I didn’t come to this job with patience, I’m currently learning it. Add stable and dependable. Families need that in a caregiver.
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Tips for transitioning from a job to family child care:
  • Make sure you have the support of your family. You’ll be tired, stressed, so busy and daycare/preschool tends to take over a house!
  • Try saving some extra money to tide you over while you find clients. Cut back where you can NOW.
  • Tell everyone you know you’re starting a child care. Create a website, advertise on all the free sites. Consider ads in the paper, Craigslist or online listings with phone book companies.
  • Check into your state licensing requirements first and get started on the process. I completed the licensing process before I quit my job. Just in case.
  • Determine what kind of program you’ll have. Since, you JR, are already working with preschoolers, you’ll have an easier transition. A private preschool would be wonderful, but can you make enough money only having a 2-3 hour program? Or will it be more of a day care with various ages enrolled?  Look online at other program websites and see what appeals to you.  Here’s my child care website for more information:  HDD DC.
  • Set up your space, buy materials, toys, from garage sales, thrift stores or solicit donations from family and friends.
  • Consider your mortgage. Do you need to refinance? Do it before becoming self employed or you’ll have to wait until you’re self employed two years. Two years of tax returns are required. We learned the hard way…
These are just a few things that immediately come to mind.
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Personally I’ve learned and grown so much from starting my own business and doing day care/preschool. Oh, and I’ve aged a lot too. Winking smile Seriously, pretty sure I have…! It is hard work, all consuming, sometimes really stressful, hard and very rewarding. I do have the support of my wonderful husband so that makes all the difference. It’s been a good choice for our family.
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Our son has benefited from it immensely, getting such a great start in school, and having the company of other kids to play with every day. I wanted the influence on the early years of his life to be mine, not someone else’s. It’s made him who he is today. I wouldn’t have missed those years home with him for anything. 
Yes, I’m satisfied with my career choice! Thanks for asking, I hope this helps.
*All the pictures in this post are from my first year or two in child care. So much has changed since then! Fun to look through those pictures again!







New Playthings

Like most of us who work with kids, I’m always on the lookout for new, fun materials that will promote learning and creativity through play. I like to have a large variety of toys available and the kids need it, they are always on to something else and it helps to have things to rotate in & out to keep interest. Here’s a few things I’ve found recently:

Keys: currently at Michael’s in the dollar bins – sold individually. $3.00

For dramatic play. I put them in a binder ring and we keep them in the basket by our “store”.

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Sock/Mitten/Slipper Basket: Michael's dollar bins. $8-10.00

Fun for dramatic play and practicing putting on socks and stretchy gloves by themselves.

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Colored Activity Mats from Lakeshore Learning. About $6 but now currently sold out. Crying face

These heavy/flexible vinyl circles were just what I was looking for. We have used them for a color game “D go to red. B go to blue.” or just lining up and hopping on them. We also use them for “sitting spots” at circle time.

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One day we used them for sorting our orange and yellow rectangles.

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Emotions Half Masks from Oriental Trading – $5.00

I’m one the lookout for materials relating to social emotional development so I was excited to get these masks from Oriental Trading. They are interesting and made with heavy duty cardboard, nice pictures and strong sticks. They also support diversity. One EARLY morning before school, Brett and a couple of the kids were having a rowdy good time with these masks and I was cracking up. I laughed so hard when I turned around and saw their expressions and funny combinations!

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Geometric Connecting ShapesOriental Trading $13.00

I think these are an excellent buy! We used them for sorting buy shape or color as well as building.

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Baby Animal Matching CardsScholastic $5.00

I added magnets to the back of ours to use on the little magnet wall.

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Graduated Sizes PuzzlesConstructive Playthings $21.50/set

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Trays – Target on clearance for about 1/2 price

Art/activity trays are one of the best things I’ve ever bought for day care. It helps keep each child’s materials together when they’re working on a project and makes clean up easy. I can move projects to the table or counter to dry or clean up later.

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“Velcro Sticks” – craft sticks & Velcro dots: I loved this idea found on Time for Play through Pinterest. What a simple, inexpensive idea! I already had the craft sticks so I picked up the Velcro and put these together within minutes. I didn’t put Velcro in the center of the sticks originally but should have so there’s more building options. I like the idea of adding bottle caps, which I’ve been collecting, also plan to make magnetic sticks.

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Thursday, November 24

Thanksgiving 2011

We had a small, simple Thanksgiving with Damon’s parents & sister at our house. My wonderful MIL brought most of the meal. I worked on Wednesday & had 8 kids in the house by the afternoon plus cleaning, making some food, and transforming our living space from day care to home so I’m thankful for what she brought & made for dinner!dinnerdinner 2td23sm

My handsome boy that grows and changes so much from Thanksgiving to Thanksgiving.td16smtd17sm

Brother & sister doing the dishes

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Stormy stalked my SIL’s little dog continually. They get along….like cats and dogs!td21smtd22sm

Brett went out for an evening walk with Gramma wearing his turkey hat.turkeyhat

Playing Apples to Apples.cards

I love that it was a relaxed day at home, enjoying simple pleasures of getting up late, taking time to enjoy coffee and actually a decent shower, cook and visit and then enjoy a special meal with more relaxing afterwards. Tonight/early morning I’m headed to Kohl’s for a little shopping! I’ve never done that before but I want a new Crockpot for cheap and maybe a couple other things.  No specific plans for the rest of the weekend! Hope you all have a great Thanksgiving weekend.